At Christmas Dinner, My Sister Told 23 Relatives I Should Disappear. I Took My Coat, Held a Sealed Letter, and Said, ‘I Accept.’
My sister told twenty-three relatives at Christmas dinner that I should disappear for a few days because “nobody would even notice.” She said it smiling into a wine glass, the same polished smile she always wore when she wanted to humiliate me in front of an audience. Most of my life, I responded the same…